5 Questions About Orgasms, Answered.
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Q: Is it bad to fake an orgasm with my partner, or should I tell them the truth?
Answer: When you fake an orgasm, you end up playing yourself in the long run because you end up in a fake orgasm loop. Your partner is in the dark. They think they're doing all the right things due to the faking. Meanwhile, faking an orgasm can lead to resentment, sexual frustration, and other bigger issues in relationships.
Plus, you're doing a disservice to your partner, as they are not learning the right moves to give pleasure to a future partner. Which means their next partner may fake orgasms .... and the cycle will continue.
Q: How many times / how often should I orgasm? Is there such a thing as ‘too many orgasms’?
Answer: There is no “right” amount of orgasms. There is only the right amount for YOU. Pleasure is not a finite resource. There is not a set number of orgasms one gets in this life and then, POOF! they’re gone.
You can keep on orgasming and orgasming and orgasming until you’re 110 years old and still have orgasms to spare. What you should ask yourself is this: Do I want another orgasm or am I sexually satisfied? If you’d like another one, go for it. If you’re all good, that’s fine, too. Pleasure is a magical thing. Enjoy it in any way you want.
XOXO Gigi
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