Question: How can you make the most of reverse cowgirl … because it is low-key kind of scary.

New data shows that reverse cowgirl being the 'most dangerous position,’ as it causes 50% of penis fractures.

Here are 3 ways to do it safely so it is fun and pleasurable for everyone.

Intentionality

Being intentional with this position is a really good way to ensure you're thinking through execution before just hopping on board. We get wrapped up in the porn tropes surrounding reverse cowgirl and, because of the performance aspect of this, we can kind just jump on and not really think through how we're moving. If we're taking the position seriously, seeking it out both for visuals but also mutual pleasure, we can figure out a way to move that is less aggressive or bouncey, and more about what feels good.

Be careful of the bounce. 

Be careful with how you're bouncing, because it's really the slip out and coming down at the wrong angle that can cause injury. Plus, it's honestly exhausting. I'd suggest instead rocking back and forth, this can give you some good, deep penetration with the ability to use your other hand for a toy or your hand on your clitoris. This position isn't just about giving your partner a show, it's about both people having pleasure. I'd suggest leaning back as well, planting both hands on your partner's thighs for balance, if you feel unstead. Alternatively, you can lean forward and use the bed for support, if that feels more comfortable. 

Go slowly. 

You don't need to do this position really quickly. Take your time climbing on, be careful to ease yourself down. You can move more slowly during sex, as this can help with feeling more in control. Remember that sex positions are all customizable and we don't need to perform like professionals to enjoy them. 

XOXO GIGI

Part of this blog originally appeared as an interview with COSMO